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'Blood' Found in Isabel Celis' Bedroom Is Impossible to Ignore

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Isabel CelisThe more I read about missing child Isabel Celis, the less I want to read about her. There is never anything definitive, but everything the police in Tucson, Arizona release seems to carry a cloud of doom with it. And the latest bit of information is some of the worst yet.

Police have found what they say could be blood in the missing 6-year-old's bedroom. There were also stains of a "dark red-brown" in a family car. Add in news that police interviewed a witness who is alleging Isabel's father was somehow involved in the girl's disappearance because he owed someone money, and you know what this means?

Isabel's case has officially gone from awful to insanely awful. Suspected blood stains? Really? What else could they be? The reports say they weren't just in the bedroom but on a shower curtain and a hat. Which sounds, come on, you know how it sounds.

I have wanted to believe that this little girl would be found alive somewhere. Even as time has passed since her disappearance way back in April, I've ignored all those statistics you hear on TV cop dramas about how the passage of time makes finding a missing child alive less and less likely. This child reminds me too much of my own daughter to just give up on her. 

In that sense, I feel guilty jumping to negative conclusions after reading the latest police reports. Right now we know nothing, I tell myself. There is nothing conclusive. So someone "said" Sergio Celis owes someone money. So police "say" there "might" be blood stains.

And yet ... time has passed. The reports all along have been unsettling -- from Sergio being banned from seeing his other kids to news that CPS and the Celis family have tangled before -- and these latest details are particularly awful. And the more I tell myself it will be OK, the more the suspicions mount.

Have you given up hope in the Isabel Celis case yet? What pushed you over the edge?

 

Image via National Center for Missing & Exploited Children


Amish Man Arrested After Stray Bullet Kills a Girl a Mile Away

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muzzle loaderWhen you're doing chores in your yard, do you ever think that what you're doing is going to affect someone a mile away? Marion Yoder probably didn't either. But the Amish man is now facing felony homicide charges because police say a bullet he shot off while cleaning his gun killed a teenage girl a full mile away.

Just think about that. A MILE away folks. This was not some creepy hunter who stood next to a pack of houses and shot off a gun at a big buck just to get a new trophy. Marion Yoder had no idea that 15-year-old Rachel Yoder (no relation) was driving a horse and buggy a mile away from his house. But now she's dead. And the courts want him to pay.

Hey, I get it. A child is dead. That is a tragedy under every definition of the word. Kids are not supposed to die.

But consider this: what happens if an Ohio court convicts Marion Yoder on the charge of reckless homicide. The 28-year-old will go to prison for an as yet undetermined amount of time.

It will make a prosecutor feel like he did something for Rachel's family. It will cost the state money. But it won't bring the teenager back.

I've noticed courts have begun to put real emphasis of late on crimes that are related to some sort of recklessness or negligence without intent. On the one hand, I applaud the push toward holding people responsible for their actions. If we've learned anything from the frivolous lawsuits that have crowded our dockets in recent years, Americans have become overfond of pointing the finger at everyone but themselves.

And yet, if you talk to someone who has unintentionally caused another's death, you'll often find they are already in a prison of sorts. It's a jail made from sorrow and helplessness. It's a dark and forbidding place, the kind that changes them for good.

I've seen what it's done to people. Some turn to alcohol to keep themselves from feeling. Some become good Samaritans to the extreme, hoping that somehow they can undo the bad by doing so very much good. All have a demon in their heads that will remain there for the rest of their lives.

What do you think is the best course of action here?

 

Image via El Caganer/Flickr

'50 Shades of Grey' Reviewed By a No-Holds-Barred Teenager Will Make You Blush

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Fifty Shades of GreyIf you finished up Twilight and asked yourself, "Where was all the sex?" someone probably reminded you it was supposed to be a book for teenagers. And then Fifty Shades of Grey came out. Finally! A trashy romance book for the adults! Until the teenagers started reading E.L. James' erotic novel.

It seems Christian Grey isn't the only one getting moms all hot and bothered lately. Parents are freaking out that their kids are reading about bondage. I guess we should have been expecting this, right? Adult women wandered into trashy teen lit territory with the Stephenie Meyer series. It only serves us right that they're sneaking into our camp.

So is this book leaving our teenagers 50 shades of screwed up? Maybe this will set your mind at ease. We set a 15-year-old up with the book, and got her to share her hilarious rant online:

On Christian:

All I have to say about Grey is that he is a nutcase. He’s one of those guys your mother (and your best friend) tells you to stay away from. He’s a creep. He stalks Ana, refuses to listen to a lot of what she wants changed in the rules (and she then backs down and agrees, look at that), has so much money and practically THROWS it at Ana (who is ungrateful, I’d take a free MacBook Pro, thank you very much!), buys her clothes that are MAGICALLY exactly her size, sends his assistant (Taylor) out to buy panties for Ana, HAS to dominate the sex and make it a lot kinkier than it has to be in order to get his rocks off, refuses to tell Ana hardly anything, refuses to let her touch him (and wont tell her why), and the list goes on.

Christian Grey is someone who needs to be on large doses of medication and needs to spend some more time in therapy.

On Ana:

Ana ... is a piece of work. She contradicts herself all. the. time. So many mixed messages and comments inappropriate for the setting/time. Like, she wants no part of the whole kinky sex business. WAIT. Here comes her inner goddess screaming YES! DO IT!, and then after indulging the goddess, she realizes what she/he did (note, she WANTED it) and then she cries and whines. She was upset when he spanked her, and then agrees to have sex in the “red room of pain”? The average Joe could see how much sense that makes!

Where's the plot? What is Ana trying to accomplish?

On the book as a whole:

The whole book had a shadow of a plot, wrapped in sex scene, and then another sex scene, and look, more kinky sex. It was fun at first, but after reading half the book, I was sick of the sex. I wanted the real plot to start!

Also, it was way too similar to Twilight. I know it was a Twilight fanfiction originally, and that they just changed the names, but it was annoyingly similar. Jose was Jacob, Christian was Edward, Ana was Bella, etc. On a side note, Twilight also had no good plot.

So there you have it. We aren't embarrassed to read it because of the sex. We're embarrassed that we like it at all. And our kids ... well, they think WE'RE 50 shades of screwed up for going on and on about it.

But just think. They won't be allowed into the theaters when the movie comes out. We won't have to listen to them mocking us! Age still trumps beauty y'all.

What age do you think is old enough to read Fifty Shades of Grey?

 

Image via RachelKramerBussell.com/Flickr

Military Moms Breastfeed in Uniform and the World Freaks Out

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6-Year-Old Loses Spelling Bee But Wins a Victory for Nerds Everywhere (VIDEO)

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'Teen Mom' Jenelle Evans Settles Pregnancy Rumors As Only She Can (PHOTO)

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Police Demand in Ayla Reynolds' Missing Child Case Should Push Dad to Act

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Honors Student Jailed for Missing School Refuses $100,000 in Assistance (VIDEO)

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If you've heard of Diane Tran, you've probably been outraged on behalf of the high school honors student sentenced to jailtime for missing too much school. ...

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When you spend the money to actually watch your favorite sport up close and personal, you want a memento. ...

Soldier Surprises Little Sister at High School Graduation (VIDEO)

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If you've been wracking your brain for the best present a graduating senior can get, you might as well stop. ...

Man Throws His Stool at Gunman and Saves 3 Lives

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Thank God for heroes. ...

Rape Victim Turned Away by Hospital in Her Desperate Time of Need

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For years, our justice system has been haunted by a backlog of rape kits sitting, untested, in storage. ...

12 Signs You're a New Mom

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6 Children's Books Too Good to Have Been Written by a Celebrity

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The last time I walked through the kid's section at a bookstore, I wanted to cry. ...

Sugary Sweet Cinnamon Rolls Bursting With Blueberries

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I'm not sure whether to mourn or celebrate the fact that my town does not have a Cinnabon. ...

'Teen Mom' Jenelle Evans Needs to Get Away From Fiance Gary Head Fast

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Getting involved in someone else's relationship is like begging for trouble. ...

If Your Kid Was Missing, How Far Would You Go to Get Him Back?

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Grandpa Booted From Store's Kid Section ... Because He Is a Man

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